Hello JoDe,
I know when my sister had her first baby everything went smooth. With her second, they told her that her son may have Down Sydrome.... it shook her up and she was so worried she contemplated abortion and was very confused. In the end though, she toughed it out and went through with the whole pregnancy and took all the necessary measures (as far as diet etc.) and did everything in her power to make sure the baby was healthy. Her son, my nephew, was born without Down Syndrome and is the most active little 3 yr old I've seen. I dont know if you're a religious person, but just have faith and leave it in God's hands and everything will be easier to deal with. Don't get scared, stay strong and gather as much information from this site and other moms that you can and hopefully everything will turn out for the best! Good luck and best of wishes!!! 