I have two toddler boys Logan is 3 and Matt is 19months and I just dont know what to do, I know they are at the age where they dont listen but it's driving me crazy!  They can both just be so naughty and mean always hitting and pinching each other.  I try to keep them busy with activities, but I cant sit between them all day.  Any advice on how to make it so they are nicer to each other???  Even my mom says that we were never this bad for her, who knows maybe she just doesn't remember it?? 

Also, any advice on how to keep my 3ry old in bed at night would be great.  Last night we put him down at his normal bed time and he kept getting out of bed for over an hour.  Just wanting a drink of water and then of course he had to go potty everytime he got out of bed.  He always gets up around 1am then goes right back to bed with no problems, so thats not a big deal, even though he wakes up every morning with a wet pullup.  I can't complain that he has the wet pull up in the morning because he is completly potty trained during the day and has been for a while.

Thanks for any advice. 

 I am having same problems..some help would be great.

 Sorry no help here just sympathy. My two and a half year old boy doesn't listen to me at all when we're in public. He's okay at home, but as soon as we go someplace he totally knows that there's no naughty spot to be put in or whatever other punishment he might be given. I feel like I want to tell every mom who stares at him like he's a brat that he's not really this naughty, just when we're out. lol Anyway, I just wanted to vent about that.