Okay, so I had a doctor's appointment today. Everything was fine with the baby and me. My husband being a Marine is fine but his command is causing me to stress out. There are things they say or do or both at times that causes me to stress out really bad. Then there's a spot on my cervix that has to be looked at by Colposcopy. I'm nervous since I had a cone biopsy last November for precancerous cells. Now they think that it could have came back. I'm waiting as patiently as possible for the referral to go thru so I can go have it done. I feel like I"m losing my mind! I stay at home all the time while my hubby works. Well he expects me to do everything during the day. I was suppose to call someone today and I forgot to do it because I was tired and laid down for a while. He gets aggravated at me if I don't do something that he asked me to do. I'm supposed to go see my regular doctor other than my OB/GYN to see about getting help with it. Sorry guys, I needed to vent REALLY bad

Lissa, sorry to hear you are so stressed out.  I hope everything turns out ok with your situation.  Talk to your hubby and let him know how you are feeling...he may not realize that he is adding to your stress. 

Good luck and feel better soon...Shaila

Hello Lissa,

 Sorry to hear that you're so stressed out.  I agree with Shaila- talk with him and let him know that you're stressing out and what his part is in everything.  Also, I keep a list of everything now and days.  I seem to forget everything.  The other day I went to visit a friend and wrote down things I wanted to tell her because I would forget when I got there.  If you make a list of things it will help you a great deal to keep up with everything.  Let me know how things work out. 

 

Christi

Lissa, My husband is a marine too and AMEN to the command stressing you out...I have the same problem! And not to be repetative, but def. talk to your hubby. I was keeping it all inside and then the other day I blew up and had to yell. My husband had no idea I felt the way I did because I kept telling him that everything is ok. He is a marine and they can be oblivious sometimes...at least most of the ones I know are! LOL. And vent all you want...thats what we are here for is to lend a sympathetic ear. Try and take care of yourself! And keep us updated!

 Shanie

Yea, I have talked to my husband and I did let him know what's going on. There's nothing he can do to help. He can't stand up to his command or he can get into trouble and we don't want that. I try to explain the situation to my family but they don't understand. My husband takes time to lay down with me and watch a movie to ease the stress.