Hello everyone, I can't decide what type of birth control I will like to use.  I would like to go on the pill but i think i might be

too old for the pill I'm 38 I ask my doctor she said I'm not too old for the pill. and she also mention something about a iud

and I said no nothing to invasive I don't want something getting stuck or lost in the body. And then she mention something about

tying the tubes, and I said no I want to remain intact down there I'm afraid of the side effects from having the tubes tied. I want my husband

to get a vasectomy he was supposed to get it done last year but he chickened out.  I'm not sure what to do, any feedback is greatly

appreciated Thanks.